Sparkling eyes, excited anticipation and the rapid opening of small parcels - for many children, presents are an integral part of Christmas. But what do children really want - and how can you as a family treat them with care?
In the run-up to Christmas, the lists grow, the wishes become more concrete, the waiting more intense. Children look forward to presents - that's part of the joy of being a child. But there is often something else at play too: the need for time, attention and genuine connection.
Especially in families with several children, patchwork constellations or tight budgets, the question arises: How much is enough? And what makes a gift really valuable? Christmas offers the opportunity to look beyond gift-giving - to what moves children deep inside at this special time.
Five thoughts for conscious gift-giving in the family
1. take wishes seriously - even the little ones
Whether it's a cuddly toy, a flashlight or a booklet, there is more to many children's wishes than the object itself. Perhaps the feeling of being seen. Or a need for comfort, adventure or security. Ask questions, listen - and take even simple wishes seriously.
2. give the gift of a shared experience
Think about whether some of the gifts can be turned into time spent together: a voucher for a trip, an afternoon at the movies, baking cookies with Grandma. These experiences often stay in the heart longer than any toy.
3. maintain small rituals around gift-giving
Create a moment of calm when unwrapping. Perhaps by candlelight, with a cup of punch or a favorite song. This way, every gift has its place - and the joy doesn't turn into a hectic rush.
4. give room for creativity
Homemade things are often just as valuable as bought things. Encourage your children to make or bake something for their siblings, godparents or grandparents. Drawings, cards or "time vouchers" also have a great effect - and strengthen the awareness of giving.
5. gratitude as part of the celebration
Discuss with your children what they particularly enjoyed - and why. Perhaps write a thank you card together or send a voice message. This way, Christmas is not just a celebration of receiving, but also of connecting.
Children's Christmas joy doesn't need a full gift table. It arises when wishes are heard, hearts are touched and relationships are strengthened. By combining giving with attention and warmth, you give your children something that goes far beyond the material: the feeling of being loved and seen.
We wish you a wonderful Christmas season!
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